speak their language

Today in the One Year Bible, we read from 1 Corinthians 14:1-17, where Paul tells us that it's better for us to speak in languages people understand than to just speak in tongues. While I contest whether speaking "so only God understands you" is less worthwhile than preaching (after all, isn't that what prayer is?), I do see a good message in his words.

It's important to speak so that people will understand you. That means speaking a language that they know. And that seems pretty simple, right? But it's deeper than the simple meaning. See, different people speak different languages, even if they're all speaking English. One aspect of this is love languages. We are called to love people, right? That's what it's all about - loving God, and loving other people. And the most effective way to love someone is to learn what love language they speak. If you're "willing the good of the other", which is how "love" is defined when referring to loving others, then it's important to love them in a language they'll understand. Some people receive love in acts of service. Some receive love in words of encouragement. Others receive love in quality time. If you're going to love someone, it's a good idea to learn how they love, and then love them that way.

But it also means using words they understand. You're not loving your five year old very effectively if you explain soteriology as understood through a covenant relationship contained in the Old Testament and revealed in the New. They'll have no idea what you're talking about.

Conversely, if the level of theology that you share with a doctoral student consists of, "I know it's true cuz the Bible says so," then you might lose your audience. It's important to know who's listening, and speak in such a way that they can get what you're saying.

This is just good communication. But when you are loving people, and sharing the truth with them, good communication is crucial.

So let's make an effort to learn what language people speak, and talk to them in that language. And also, say a prayer for them.

God, thanks for teaching us to speak to people in a language they can understand.